Raising Bullies

Some time ago, my friend Jim posted about a city here in MA talking about banning profanity, and threatening to hand out $20 tickets to folks who swear in public.

The police chief of said town had said that it was mostly teenagers swearing down town in the area where shop owners made their business, and were feeling threatened.

This really kinda pissed me off, enough that now, probably about a month later, it’s still sorta seething in me.

My thoughts on the problem are that parents who decided thirty something years ago, that it wasn’t right to discipline their kids, tried coming up with ways of reasoning with them. They never raised their voices. They never raised their hands. What their raised was a bunch of assholes who learned that if their parents made them mad, they could drag them to court, and divorce them!

Well, now those assholes are having little assholes of their own. But the parent’s don’t want to be divorced by their kids, so instead of doing something about it, they’re having the generation who would have smacked the shit out of them but are now too old and afraid, get the police involved! The police?! Don’t these people have bigger fish to fry than handing out $20 tickets to teenagers for saying “Shit” in public?? There’s not enough real crime? Tax dollars at work! WTF?

Everywhere you look, there’s a story about kids being bullied, and killing themselves, or moving schools or something drastic like that. The bullies are winning because people are using these same god damned tactics to deal with them!

“Bullying is wrong. How would you feel. Stop bullying. Let’s raise awareness!”

How about we find the little bastards and whoop their asses? Seems to be the only thing they understand, and it’s painfully obvious that it’s been missing out of their upbringing.

Christ, I’d have gotten the tar smacked out of me if someone told my mother I was a bully. One of the facebook groups she “Likes” is “I’d rather go to jail for spanking my kid, than have my kid go to jail because I didn’t.”